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Music education is more than just playing an instrument; it is immersing your child in a culture of successful students and teachers who care about education. It challenges each child to use the creative side of their brain while, at the same time, learning a foreign language…MUSIC.

All of the current data clearly states that students involved in music education academically outperform their non-musical counterparts. But, more importantly, studies are showing that music students are less likely to engage in risky behaviors such as drugs and alcohol.

Playing a musical instrument and acquiring the unique habits of mind that come with it is one of the most incredible opportunities that our school can offer your child.  The instrument in your child’s hands has the power to transform their life in ways that no other endeavor can.  In addition to musical accomplishments, this year your child will learn to:

You play a vital role in the musical education of your child, and you can be successful at this even if you don’t believe yourself to be musical!  Supporting your child at home is easy and fun — if you can teach them to wash dishes, you can help them develop a healthy practice routine at home! In the meantime, here are a few things to keep in mind to ensure that your child enjoys music as part of their life for years to come.

1. Treasure the escape from “high-stakes” studies.  It seems that everywhere we turn, academic expectations run higher and panic begins to set in: about acing the exam, passing the SOL tests, or keeping up with “high-achieving” peers.  Playing a musical instrument helps parents pull their children off this fast track, if even for a moment, and not worry that other children will wind up “ahead”.  Instrumental music gives children room to find their genuine passions, the freedom to discover true independence, and the space to fail and bounce back. They will become better people this year through their musical studies.

2. Embrace the “offline” time.  Your child’s ability to become a deep and complex person relies so much upon their ability to build their attention span.  In our lightning-fast digital world, children do not have enough opportunities to build understanding and intelligence through mindful solitary activities.  Musical instrument instruction facilitates this offline, “slow world” learning and brings children together in a unique, “unplugged” ensemble when they have Band.

3. Understand that your child’s instrumental music experience is just as (if not more) crucial to their growth as human beings than any other subject.  Music is much more than a “special” or a “frill” subject — it is a core subject, and it should be approached that way by all of us.  When taught with healthy rigor, it is often the most enjoyable subject during the school day, and the home practice should be treated as an essential part of the homework routine.  When taught well and supported at home, the craft of learning a musical instrument develops fortitude, willpower, and metacognitive skills that parents stay up at night hoping their children have when they grow up.

At the beginning of every school year we are not only passionate about growing a new generation of musicians, music lovers, and future patrons of the arts — We are determined to arm your children with the tools to become great thinkers, citizens, and lifelong lovers of music.  We will take care of the musical instruction on our end, but the actions of parents assisting their children’s practice at home, accompanied with a long-term commitment to their children staying in our Band program, will ensure that they receive the best education Great Bridge Middle School has to offer.

Three things parents must tell their children when they begin a musical instrument

from Anthony Mazzocchi's "The Music Parents' Guide: A survival Kit for the New Music Parent"

Hopefully your child will begin a musical instrument through their school music program. If so, when they bring home their instrument for the first time, it is more than just an exciting day…

...It is an opportunity...

…Perhaps one of the greatest opportunities in your child’s life thus far.

If you are like me, you want your child to complete their K-12 education with far more than factual knowledge and an ability to score well on tests.  You don’t believe that your child’s success in life depends primarily on cognitive skills — the type of intelligence that is measured on IQ tests and such.  You don’t believe that school should be primarily focused on stuffing kids’ brains with as much factual knowledge as possible, but instead is focused on growing skills and mindsets that will last a lifetime.  Psychological traits that include

• The patience to persist at a tough (and perhaps boring) task

• The ability to delay gratification

• The curiosity and grit to problem solve; to name a few.

And the musical instrument in your child’s hand could be the key to learning those skills.

You see, your child didn’t receive an instrument with the expectation that they would become a professional musician, just as they did not receive a math book with the expectation of them becoming a mathematician.  But, unlike any other subject, your child has the opportunity to develop some of the most important life skills through learning to play an instrument, and you need to let them know this is the case.

Here are three things parents need to know and be able to express to their child as soon as they begin learning to play a musical instrument:

1. “You are allowed to fail, and you will become better because of your failures.”  There are no red pen marks for missed notes in music the way there are on tests — there is nothing to feel bad about when you play something “wrong” in music.  To become skilled at a musical instrument — and to become great at anything — one needs to struggle a little.  In your child’s case, they need to sound bad before they sound good; they need to work on things just beyond what they are capable of in order to get better and smarter, and that means they need to make mistakes.  There is a small gap between what we all are able to do and where we want to be, and focusing on that gap makes us better learners and better people.  Learning a musical instrument allows us to grow from our mistakes.

2. “Hard works trumps talent every single time.” Practicing a skill over and over, the right way, fires circuits in our brains that solidify that skill.  Sure, some people find some skills easier at first than others, but the people who practice that skill daily in order to “burn it” into their brain will always far surpass people who don’t practice enough.  Practicing a musical instrument helps children learn the universal truth that hard work trumps talent.

3. “This is a long-term commitment, and we are going to stick with it.”  Studies have shown that students who identified that they would play their instrument for longer than one year outperformed students who only committed to one year of playing by up to 400% — practicing the same amount of time if not less!  The ideas and mindsets students bring to their musical instrument study have a direct effect on their success, and it’s the parents’ role to set the tone on the first day by not giving their child an “easy out” to quit.  Make the decision to invest in your child’s music education for at least a few years of their schooling and you will see results.

There are not many subjects taught in school that have the potential to give our children the life skills they need to be successful beyond their school lives.  Our children can learn how to have grit, motivation, problem-solving skills, flexibility, and character during and after their K-12 schooling — and music is the vehicle to teach these skills.

What if we as parents treated music like any other core subject and expected our children to study it for at least 4 or 5 years?  What does “success in school” mean to you and your child?